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Esports FIFA pro journey of improvement

What’s it like to compare yourself to brilliance?

One of my first questions with a client is ‘what’s really holding you back?’  We have to cut through the bullshit and get to the nitty-gritty of what the real issue is so we can begin to find solutions quickly.

Back in February 2020, comparing himself to brilliance was one of the situations one of my clients experienced as a member of a pro FIFA team with the number 4 player in the world as a teammate.  He felt he wasn’t good enough.  He felt under-prepared and under pressure.  He felt he was letting the team down.

After a few coaching sessions exploring limiting beliefs and internal communication (self-talk) we removed the sense of comparison and replaced it with ownership of his own ability for when you learn to focus on developing self to be the best you can be as opposed to trying to catch up to those better than you, great things will happen.  

Does this sound familiar?  Do you compare yourself to your better team-mates?

Stop it now!  They had a different journey and life experiences than you and to compare yourself to them is like comparing the capabilities of a PS4 with a PS1, it’s just not fair.  Learn and appreciate and accept your own journey without comparing yourself to others and great things will happen for you and your team.

New perspectives lead to improved results

You can choose to follow the crowd or walk your own path.  How easy is it to follow the crowd?  Just ask a sheep.  This is what they do best!  Following the crowd creates a sense of belonging, acceptance and common ground in which to connect with your fellow humans so why should anyone dare to walk in the other direction?  

Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant (RIP), Messi.  Do you think they followed the crowd?  

To improve ahead of the natural curve you must do things differently, not necessarily more, but differently.  

My client learned to do things differently, which led to multiple top 100 results weekly and monthly meaning he became one of the top 100 players in the world whereas prior to working with me, he never made the top 100.  

UPDATE ALERT – “I played the pro for Hamburg at 27-1 who beat me a few days back. I beat him 2-0. I controlled the tempo and the whole game.  I’m in the top 20 in the world for the month!” 

Don’t be a sheep, be bold and grow in a different direction than the crowd.

Growth and sustained performance

Small increments of improvement add up to huge rewards and benefits and It’s only in the end result you can truly appreciate the smart work you’ve done has paid off.  

This message from my client showed me the growth of his performance in just a short space of time, ahead of the natural curve.  “The weekend league I finished 29-1. A handful of games finished 1-0 to me, which I now realise, is still a WIN! 1-0 or 10-0 same result!  Don’t celebrate till the final whistle.  My stream hit an all time high!  I usually hit maximum 20 views if I’m lucky, I got tup to 7.6k at one point!!   Sorry for this late message but check this 30-0 A first 30 win weekend!  The amount I’ve improved this last month is crazy, your help is honestly incredible”  

Coaching gives me moments like this that I cherish and value because improving takes guts.  It takes a bold move to come out of your comfort zone and learn how to do things differently.  But not everything will go your way and what happens when the unexpected happens?  What can you do when events out of your control hit you hard?  Find out next time to discover how my client dealt with Covid.

The Covid-19 Factor

Just as my client was getting ready to kick ass in competitions, a virus put everything on hold for FIFA, meaning the momentum we were building could have been lost.  Some would throw in the towel; see it as a way of relaxing and use Covid as an excuse as to why their performance has dropped.  What choice did my client take?  Did he throw the towel in and make excuses?  Here’s what he told me 

“The best in the world isn’t grinding as much, it’s almost as though he’s happy with his position at the top, but it won’t last forever and that’s why I’m not sitting back while it’s off season and accepting the competitive season is on hold, since we’ve been working together I’ve developed an obsession with being the absolute best and I’m not going to stop.  I feel like we’ve made incredible progress but there’s obviously always improvements to be made.  So happy about this Mike.  Mind-set is everything!  You motivate me, knowing every Monday I receive a message from you with an update and I enjoy knowing there’s a little pressure from you.  Even Covid, such a negative effect on the world but I believe I’ve used it as a positive to better myself”  

Boom!  The mind-set of a champion in the making right there!

New beginnings

There’s light at the end of this tunnel and with the momentum on his side; his mind-set has been honed and adjusted and ready for the new season. 

He knows he’s been working smart and doing everything in his power to make an immediate impact.  

Have others been doing the same?  It doesn’t matter.  Have others been slacking off?  It doesn’t matter.  What does matter is my client has been preparing in a way that has allowed him to unlock his potential in ways he wouldn’t have known.  

With a new mind-set comes a new perspective of the world and not only in Esports but in life.  The tools we explore go much deeper than sports and this quote from him demonstrates why 

“The game (FIFA 21) has just dropped for 10 hours early access so I’ve been just grinding it non stop.  I’m learning constantly to better myself on and off the pitch.  I’m excited for the year ahead!”

The first week of competition and this happened!

It came to the first weekend league, the first test & im instantly in the top 100 finishing 29 wins & 1 loss, making me verified first week! I’m happy with this but the 1 loss on penalties is in the back of my mind because I know I’m even better and capable of even more!

His thoughts on the coaching journey

This player is eager, he’s hungry to grow but not all players have this mindset and for me, as a coach I have to know if potential clients have the right mind set and ask three simple questions

  • Do you have a need or desire to improve
  • Have you an open mind to learning new techniques and strategy
  • With my support are you prepared to take new action for improved results

Mike, it’s amazing it’s such a great journey what we’ve been through! Good times and bad times!
I’m a lot more patient, stuff isn’t going to happen overnight and the little details are so so affective! I’m using so much as motivation in everything

Are you a gamer, A performance director or CEO wanting to know how to improve performance?

Have you found this blog interesting and useful?

Let me know and let’s connect

Mike

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What Is A Specialist Mental Performance Coach?

The Power Of Your Mind

Your Mind Drives You

Your mind is what drives you

Your mind decides whether you succeed or fail, yet many athletes don’t understand this, and it’s my job to help educate and support you to not only understand your mind, but how to think differently for improved results.

Why Am I A Specialist?

Why am I A specialist?

I’m a specialist in my field – mental performance coach for athletes around the world and please allow me to elaborate and share my experience with you

  • Voted by coaches as the best player in England on the England U19 basketball team aged 17
  • Voted by coaches as one of the top 20 players (All-Star selection) in the second tier of British basketball (At only 5′ 7″ I had to take a different approach to the game to succeed)
  • NLP Master Practitioner
  • Through a research project involving filming 200 players and analysing 1000 clips, I co-wrote an academic paper and developed the world’s first emotional intelligence program for football (soccer) and basketball players.
  • Mindfulness Practitioner
  • Training and development consultant for a National company
  • Assistant Professional coach for The Manchester Giants
  • Helped athletes in football, golf and basketball to improve performance quickly
  • Mental Health advocate
  • Degree in Sports Development
  • Voluntary Director of a National League Basketball Team

Does All That Really Matter?

Who Cares What I’ve Achieved?

In all my time of working, not one of my clients asked me to prove my experience or to see my qualifications.

Many people really don’t care what I’ve achieved, because all they care about is what I can do for them, so you can put aside my experiences and qualifications and know, you are at the centre of my support.

I don’t use jargon because I want to understand you and I want you to understand me. When we understand each other, great things will happen.

Move Forward Quickly

Move forward quickly

It’s your mind and your thoughts, that I’m interested in. The more I know, the more I can help and the more open and honest you are with me, the quicker we can move you from crisis to thriving.

There are two factors that are influencing you right now and keeping you from moving forward

  • Your perception of your reality
  • Your expectations of self and others

Your perception of your reality isn’t aligned with your expectations and it’s this misalignment that leads you to a crisis point.

But don’t worry. You will soon understand how to move on from the crisis point and begin to thrive and improve your opportunities.

Take Action

Take Action

When someone is experiencing crisis, one of two things can happen.

  • They won’t take action and the feelings of anxiety, fear, guilt etc will grow and manifest, leading the person down a dark path as they hope things will get better.
  • They will take action and see the light, not at the end of the tunnel, but closer. Those feelings of anxiety and fear will quickly dissipate, replaced with a new inner-strength and courage and talking of courage. Reaching out for help is courageous, not a sign of weakness, as many others will try to make you believe.

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